30 Tips to be a Perfect Person:

30 Tips to be a Perfect Person:

1. Perfect persons love everything in their life. They love Cities, Villages, plains, deserts, oceans, mountains, animals and everything in the nature. They generally love life

2. They never complain and don’t waste their time with moaning. They never wish to be other person. . They don’t have barriers in their mind.

3. They are always excited for what they are doing.

4. They don’t get bored. They find something to do even in boring moments. They hate showing off and pretending to enjoy. They enjoy realities.

5. They are independent and don’t feel guilty. They don’t punish themselves.

6. They live in the present time and are not worried about the future.

7. They are not afraid of unknowns and always search for new experiences. They love mysterious things


8. They are not ignorant and stupid.

9. They don’t enforce their love to beloved. Free from expectations, their relationship is based on free choice and mutual respect.

10. Their private corner is very important for them. Sometimes they really love to be alone with the self.

11. They don’t fall in love several times. Usually they fall in love once and forever.

12. They are restrict to choose the beloved. But they love heartily and sincerely. Their love to their beloves will never end.

13. Their way in life is not judgmental. They also don’t care about others’ judgment and don’t need people’s admiration and sympathy. They don’t need to make all people satisfied. They always say what they want and are not scared to proclaim their ideas.

14. They are honest, frank and straightforward. They live based on their wishes and ideas.

15. They are not stubborn. But they choose their way by own.

16. They ignore stupid traditions and irrelevant barriers.

17. There is an account in the bank for them. But they don’t kill themselves to make it full of money. Money is the last thing they care for.

18. Seriously and attentively, they’re wise, open-minded and practical.

19. They know how to laugh and make laugh. They like to tease people. But their way is not bcs of enmity or hatred. They never ridicule others. They don’t laugh at people, but they laugh with them. People enjoy to be with them, bcs they make joyful atmosphere around themselves.

20. Routine life is not their way. They love variety.

21. This life for them is a temporary time. Working hard to be better person, they never take life serious.

22. They dont say sorry for what they really love to have.

23. Facing the problems, They don’t get emotional and confused. They fight and win over problems. But they also don’t fight to take ineffectual and unfruitful goals. They are not essentially hero/heroine. Yet they are active and supportive.

24. Life for them is not living on surface. They usually go for content and know how to live.

25. They are crative and imaginative. For anything, They use their mind and their power of thinking. They are powerful, strong and full of energy.

26. They need less sleep and they are healthy. There is no way for depression.

27. They don’t put people in groups and don’t blame them.

28. Thirsty to know, They love to learn more and more. They are very curious and are not afraid of failure. They are mostly learner instead of teacher.

29. They have strong relationship with God. They love nature and the world.

30. They accept what they are. They love themselves and try to be best. The most natural people, They are themselves and not anybody else.

How Your Dreams are Holding You Back

How Your Dreams are Holding You Back (And What to Do About It)

Are your dreams secretly preventing you from living the life you REALLY desire?
Most people have dreams, but their dreams are holding them back. Dreams aren’t bad in and of themselves. In fact, dreams are great.
They only become a problem when you use them as an excuse. When you tell yourself that you could never go after your dreams, or that you don’t have the connections, money, or talent to do what you deeply desire.
Most people use their dreams as an excuse.
What you think you have to do to realize your dreams is often not the right path at all, and the dream you have right now may not even be the dream you really want.
You don’t know all the possibilities that exist, so you cannot possibly know what the best life for you is, can you?
Why Your Dreams Are Holding You Back
I have dreams.
You have dreams.
We all have dreams.
The problem is that many of the dreams we have block us from seeing all the other possibilities available to us. We put on blinders and focus only on what we think is right and we miss everything else.
Before I started my online business and began doing what I love, I had a predetermined path in my mind, and I thought it was the only way there.
The problem?
I didnít think I could walk that path, because I wasnít good enough, I didn’t have the connections necessary, and I was scared out of my mind.
Or, so I thought.
When you look at successful people, youíll often see that they got to where they are in an unconventional manner.
What’s really going on is that the concept that we call dreams is holding us back by limiting our perspective.
We have no idea of how our dreams will manifest, or if the dream we think we want is the one we’ll want five years from now.
The solution is to think smaller.
What to Do About It
Keep your dream in mind, but don’t get too attached to it. Instead, I’d like to invite you to enjoy the present moment a tad more than you have.
You have your plans, and you have your vision, which is fantastic, but now it’s time to return to the here and now.
The way you do this is by focusing on what the next smallest step is that you can take toward what you want.
You will know what the right next step is because it will feel good. For example, today I woke up and felt like writing this article. It felt good, so here I am.
Now, beware that you will sometimes be afraid of your next step. Another example from my life would be if I was creating my next product.
That generally scares me because Iím not sure if people will like it. However, the problem is that the step is too big. I need to break it down into smaller parts.
When I do that, it becomes something like this:

1. Come up with a product title
2. Research and outline the product
3. Fill in ideas in the outline

Even those steps are too big, but can you see where I’m going with this? Itís not the task that scares us, but our thoughts about it. When you break things down, you can see yourself taking action.
What If You Donít Know What Your Next Step Is?
If you don’t know what your next step is, do nothing until you feel compelled to act.
Whenever I try to force myself to do anything, it doesnít end well. I almost feel like thereís a divine timing to everything. Iím not religious, but thatís how it feels.
Instead of forcing myself, I simply allow myself to rest in that space of not knowing. Itís not always easy, and often itís frustrating as hell, but thereís not much else I can do.
I could try to force progress, but it would just make me more miserable.
Iím at a point in my life where Iíve realized that thereís no rush to get anywhere. All I have to do is to enjoy the here and now.
Happiness comes from within me, not from out there. No goals, accomplishments, or dreams will make me happier than I allow myself to be.
This realization isnít always present, because like you, Iím human. Sometimes I hate life and the perceived obstacles in front of me, but thatís just how it goes.
Some days will be better than others.
But it always comes down to what you do with them.

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